mothers just know what you don’t want to hear about|and in many cases that is exactly what they are going to talk about|while some things are important to talk about|other things we just hear over and over again as if we didn’t know it ourselves|for me my mother’s probing in problems i know i have doesn’t make it easier for me to solve them|in order to still stand upright after a talk with my mother i need to push the problems away|that certainly doesn’t help the already hard process of solving the problems|i know it|my mom knows it|but|we keep talking|