in times where sentences like|i was in new york yesterday|no|today i am in paris|see you in two days in rio|come natural to us|if distance is not what matters anymore|what does matter|time matters|duration|it is not the distance that is of importance|important is the time spend in one place|everybody can fly to new york just like this|not everybody can stay for more than a fortnight|if even that|hence the menace of relationships is not distance|it rather is the time not spent together|